You may have heard about the Law of Attraction, also called Karma, among the universal laws that govern the human experience. Here’s my take on the universal laws that govern relationships.
The Master Law: Cause and Effect, or Flash Karma
This law poignantly plays out in your relationships in every minute. However are you familiar with the effects you’re producing? Or do you blame your partner for what you feel is doing not have in your relationship? You enjoy what you plant. What you take into a relationship is what you return. If you plant love, sincerity, compassion and approval, then that is what you will gain.
The Law of Time
Making time every week to be together is important. Do anything you both take pleasure in: hang out with good friends, eat out, or cuddle while enjoying a preferred motion picture. Snuggling is cool. When couples start dating, snuggling belongs to their everyday life. Over time cuddling stops. Keep snuggling– it assists both of you feel warm, safe and enjoyed.
The Law of the Health Spa
This is a variation on The Law of Time. You can reveal your gratitude for your beloved’s dedication to your relationship by giving her a present certificate to a regional spa. But the day will be extraordinary for both of you if you join her, sharing the health club experience with her.
The Law of Walking Your Talk
Stating “I like you” is important, but putting words into action in unique methods keeps your relationship interesting. It helps to keep your relationship exciting and fresh. Here is one method to reveal the man in your life you care: the next time he is out of town, clean his cars and truck and choose him up at the airport in a clean, shiny car.
The Law of Space
Perhaps your precious likes to fish, but the idea of impaling slimy little worms on a hook earns you out. Don’t force yourself to do it. Just as time together is important, it is similarly important for each of you to have time apart to do something you like.
The Law of Gumby
The foundation of a terrific relationship is the ability to see beyond the ego’s defensiveness. When you feel yourself digging in your heels, make the option to be flexible– like Gumby.
The Law of Familiarity
When a relationship is fresh and new, it’s simple to overlook the little irritating things the other person does. Eventually, however, the newness diminishes. Familiarity types contempt and the nagging kicks in. Comments switch from, “You look beautiful,” to, “Are you actually going to use that t-shirt?” It is a paradox that the one we love the most is the one we can harm the most deeply. Your words are really powerful, so focus what’s actually essential and let the rest go.
The Law of Terrific Expectations
No matter how long you have actually been together, you can’t expect your beloved to understand how you feel or what you think about something. Quit the illusion that if your partner actually loved you, he or she could read your mind. Take duty for clearly mentioning your needs, opinions and sensations.
The Law of Luggage
Everybody have an emotional “luggage” from past relationships, but it is unfair to make your present partner spend for things they never ever did. So it is wise to let go of your emotional baggage. Gain from past hurts and know that you are more powerful and wiser now. Leave the baggage from the past where it belongs: in the past. Rather, concentrate on today. When this relationship is harmed, overcome the concern then forgive your partner– really forgive. Let it go. Put it behind you, then move forward with a stronger, much healthier relationship.
The Law of Giving
True joy comes from the act of offering– not getting– and does not need an action of appreciation. Service offered with a joyful spirit is its own benefit. This is a deeply spiritual variation on the Law of Cause and Impact: when you produce an experience of delight for another, you will experience joy.
A deeper, richer relationship starts with you. Now. Utilize these Universal Laws every day to develop your relationship to the next level.
